You guys cant really be surprised.
Some people are just wacky self centred emotional people. They love it when they are surrounded by like minded people all giving each other creepy group hugs. But when faced with adversity or simply a different viewpoint on forums, at work, with family etc... they are the first ones to complain, cry or call someone Hitler.
One thing to remember. Despite someone's age, never assume an adult aged person acts like an adult. Sometimes in life you have to talk to someone like a child even if they are 50 years old. Sounds crazy, but that's life.
Case in point. One person I worked with years back (I wasnt her boss) was one of those emotional people. She seemed to do an ok job from what I saw when I interacted with her. But her boss (my good friend) hated that she'd always have to give her positive reinforcement for a job well done. If she didn't, the worker would be depressed thinking she was doing bad. She wasnt lying because sometimes I'd get copied on those emails..... you know, the ones where people start replying "Thanks XXXXX, you did a great job!". That kind of stuff that just fills your inbox and is an instant delete wasting my time.
The worker was around 52 years old working in the industry for probably 25 years. An industry vet, but after decades still emotional.