Basically, in order for me to categorize a game as 'woke', it must do the following:
A) Race/Gender swap established characters of the IP for no in-lore reason
B) Ability to 'Select Your Pronouns'
C) LGBTQ character over-representation (out of the 10 characters, at least 5 are gay/bi/trans)
At this point the game is woke, but by no means does that make it a bad game and it can be fully enjoyed by me nonetheless.
In order for me to categorize the woke game as 'unbearably woke' to the point I can't play it, it must ALSO do (some of) the following:
D) Purposefully uglify and de-sexualize the female characters of the game, even though they are based on beautiful models/actresses
E) Female characters are smarter, stronger, tougher, and more ambitious than the male ones
F) Male characters are either weak-willed beta males with zero ambitions, confidence or leadership skills, or they are toxic misogynistic racist assholes whose sole reason for being is to enforce the notion of 'toxic masculinity' and almost never are worthy of the social/economic power they possess.
G) Female and/or black villains are misunderstood victims who would've never be villains in the first place if they had a hug.
H) Developers often promote LGBTQ/queer values in the story or in interviews/press conferences/social media
I) Developers are openly hostile and condescending to people who question their creative decisions
J) Writing and dialogue resembles modern-day language/references/memes even though the game may take place in a mythological/medieval/sci-fi setting where that lingo either shouldn't be applicable or should've been obsolete.
K) Weak plot that refuses to be bold and offensive and provoke diversity of thought - as a result, most characters see eye to eye in values which are applauded in a modern leftist-orientated community, and the villains almost always have ideas/perceptions which are commonly found in communities of the central/(far-)right political spectrum.